September and Separation: Understanding the Post-Summer Spike in Divorce

For many families, the summer holidays have just come to a close after weeks of vacations, days out, and extended time together. While this period can be a chance to reconnect, it often brings unresolved issues to the surface. The extra time at home, financial pressures from trips away, and the constant challenge of keeping children entertained may have placed relationships under real strain.

For couples already experiencing difficulties, the long break can make existing problems feel heavier. Some may have viewed the summer as a final opportunity to “make things work”, only to reach September, realising that the issues run deeper than anticipated.

Why September Brings a Spike in Divorce Enquiries

As the summer holidays end and families return to school and work routines, family solicitors often see a rise in divorce and separation enquiries. Common reasons include:

• Putting children first: Many parents choose to “see it through” until the end of the school holidays, waiting until the academic year begins before taking the next steps.
• A final family holiday: Some couples plan one last trip together, hoping to rekindle the relationship. If it fails, the return to everyday life in September can make the decision clearer.
• New routines, new decisions: The start of a school term often feels like a natural point to make life changes. Once children are settled back in, parents may see this as the right time to address relationship difficulties.
• Practical considerations: September often brings renewed focus after the slower pace of summer. With work and school back in full swing, couples feel better able to seek legal advice.

Taking the First Step Towards Separation or Divorce

Deciding to separate or divorce is never easy. The return from summer and the fresh start of September can feel like the right time, but it can also be overwhelming to know where to begin. At Dean Wilson LLP, we strongly advise seeking advice early on.

An initial confidential appointment with one of our experienced family law solicitors can help you:

• Understand the difference between separation and divorce
• Explore options for child residence and contact arrangements
• Learn how finances, property and pensions may be divided
• Consider whether mediation or other forms of non-court dispute resolution could be an option for your situation
• Get reassurance on the steps ahead, even if you are not ready to make a final decision yet

Supporting Children Through Divorce and Separation

In many situations, the biggest concern is how separation and divorce will affect children. September can already be a time of adjustment with new teachers, new classes, or even a new school. The potential of adding a separation on top of that may feel daunting.

Our family law team takes a child-focused approach, aiming to minimise disruption and stress. We work with parents to create clear, practical childcare arrangements that ensure children’s needs are the priority. By establishing structure early, families can smoothly transition and give children stability during a difficult time.

Life After Divorce - A Fresh Start

While the decision to separate can feel like the end of something, it is also the beginning of a new chapter. September, being a time for new beginnings and routines, can also be the right time for your family to take the first step towards building a healthier future.

At Dean Wilson LLP, we believe in supporting clients not just through the legal process, but also in assisting their future. Divorce and separation are challenging, but with the right guidance, they can also be an opportunity to reset, rebuild and move forward.

Speak to Our Family Law Team Today

If you believe divorce or separation may be in your near future, or you seek advice on child custody arrangements, our experienced family law solicitors are here to help. We understand that taking the first step can feel daunting, but speaking to a professional can give you clarity and confidence.

Contact us today for a confidential initial advice appointment.